Thursday, June 16, 2011

He's sick....thank the Lord?

So it wasn't the best start to my week and I blew it. I was frustrated, tired and whiny. Once I finally made it out for a walk last night, my friend asked about my week and I confessed that I actually screamed at my daughter. At the top of my lungs. And used a swear word. Me. The mom who would be fighting every ounce of my being to take a child home with me that I heard being spoken to that way (and the reason I refuse to shop at Wal-Mart). I was horrified and even more so once I realized my windows were open and new neighbors were in their driveway! Welcome to the hood folks! Anyway, my friend patted my back and said, "praise God you ARE normal"! What? Holy cow. I felt anything but normal but her response made me laugh at myself which I probably needed to do more than I realized. The walk was great as we then went on to discuss our relationship with God, the need for accountability and how easily we slip away from much needed down time with the Lord so we can remain sane in the moments of motherhood that are anything but sane. Today is a better day.

Ty has a cold. It is minor and with a little Tylenol, he is human again! WOW! I am so grateful his behavior appears to have been linked to how he was feeling more so than the date on the calendar. Hallelujah! He missed his paci the first night but has stopped asking for it and went to bed last night after a few escape attempts. I have had to resort to using a gate in his doorway to keep him in his room. Given how easily he used to go to bed, this is a little frustrating but he will soon learn that leaving his bed is not an option. Anyway, just to make his point, Ty was throwing toys over the gate and out into the hallway saying, "uh-oh, what happened?". It took everything in me to refrain from laughing. After a few minutes, he found his way back into his bed where he slept all night.
Kate has asked to paint lately and I finally found the courage to drag out the supplies. Paint and play dough are not my favorite things as they are so messy. She spent over an hour on her little creation. She dabbed paint and then used a wet wipe to blend the colors.
Love the concentration tongue! 



I had the opportunity to sit and enjoy some beautiful weather today with my older girls as the little ones played in the needed sunshine. Lauren shared with me that she was listening to the radio in the truck on the way home from church Saturday night with Greg. Greg flipped the radio off and noted that any song that had to have that many lyrics bleeped out was not music she should be listening to. Lauren accused him of being jealous that he couldn't rap. She says Greg promptly started a "Lil Wayne needs his mouth washed out with soap" rap! I would give about anything to hear that one first hand! What a riot! My husband is really quite funny and the things he comes up with to make his point impresses me (and his girls too even if they aren't ready to admit it).
The cups on my counter at the end of any typical day because the kids have so many friends floating in and out. I have gone to disposable cups with a sharpie for writing names on each one because I was running my dishwasher twice a day just to keep up with them. Everyone would use a cup and forget which one they had and get another each time they wanted a sip of water. Being that we live in the town where water costs about the same as gold, something had to give. This was my solution and we do recycle the cups. But, this is also part of the reason we take two vehicles to church every week. We bring so many kids from the neighborhood and beyond that we need two sets of wheels. I tease the kids that we are one step away from driving a church bus.

Colby loves Brutus. He uses his new found mobility to try and catch the dog any opportunity Brutus allows. Today, Colby seated himself like this and Brutus stuck around this time!


Well, for a few minutes anyway! But, Colby also used his crawling skills to score Ty's half eaten peanut butter sandwich today! He had both fists wrapped firmly around that sandwich absolutely determined to eat it as I pried it out of his hands! Colby was not pleased with me and I had to call his dad to laugh. Brian wanted to know if I took a photo. I answered that I was a little busy preventing his son from choking! As Brian pointed out, there are a lot of differences between Moms and Dads because he would have gotten the shot! I prefer choking to occur on his watch, not mine.
Makenna has been a huge help lately. She is the one I can count on to pick up a fussy baby or stick with a project for hours around the house. The teenagers are a little too self absorbed to do anything that doesn't have a direct benefit for them. Anyway, Makenna's willingness to work hard has stood out for several months and the back breaking landscape work proved she will stick to it. We felt she'd earned a reward and surprised her with that news on Sunday. She chose a barbie house that arrived yesterday. Much to her dismay, Ty was immediately excited by the toy and both boys descended upon it like ants on a picnic!
And just for fun....a shot of our favorite toy in use

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Mommy needs a time out

The calendar says he is 23 months but his attitude says the terrible twos have arrived with a vengeance! Oh my is it a rocky ride right now. I called my sister to be pulled off the ceiling last night and get some "mom of boys" advice. I got the standard, "he's a boy" followed by some practical tips I already knew but was just too tired to think of on my own.

Remember that paci I was worried about removing? Well, he officially bit the nipple off today and ended his little relationship with it. It is currently bedtime and things are not going well. I am blogging in my pj's to prevent me from getting into the van and going after a new one! I know it is time to get rid of it but I also know we are dealing with so many behavioral issues that this was one battle I was okay with tackling at a later date.

Ty isn't my only child rebelling right now. Another little person in my house would like to be boss and has found herself grounded once again to her room and away from friends. Oh the joy. Smart parents shouldn't ground children to their rooms. We should ground them out of the house to maintain peace! Sigh.

Sunday, June 12, 2011

Day of Rest?

Praise the Lord for beautiful weather! It was gorgeous here today and we took advantage of the cooler temperatures by cleaning out all the landscape rocks, dead shrubs and removing the old swing. It was hard work but so rewarding! Greg has started the retaining wall with the left over pieces from the fire pit. Once that is complete, we will relocate the existing bushes, replace the dead ones and fill in with top soil before finishing this little endeavor with new weed blocker and landscape rock. The old rock went under the trampoline to help hold the weed barrier in place. We've gone with a permanent arrangement for the trampoline to prevent having to move it every time Greg mows the yard. That little project will be wrapped up with landscape timbers soon. Whew!
Once we trimmed the bushes, we discovered they were dying from the inside and were in pretty bad shape.


Retaining wall has been started......that process will be time consuming but we hope the ease of maintaining the landscape boundaries will be worthwhile in the end.

All the recycled rock being put to good use.....the landscape timber will improve the look of this section.
Good-bye old friend! I enjoyed more hours than I can recall relaxing on you!

Isn't it pretty?

Saturday, June 11, 2011

VBS wrap-up

Kate loved her week at our neighborhood vacation bible school. She came home ready for a nap each day and went to bed quite easily each night in anticipation of her next VBS day. She made a new "best friend" who is "practically a cousin" because Ava is Cameron's cousin. This is southern Indiana so it may count! It seems everyone is related in these parts! Any ol way, our little cowgirl enjoyed dancing and singing her VBS songs on stage this evening for all of us and wishes she didn't have to wait a whole year to go back.
She came home after the first day noting a "need" for cowgirl boots and a hat. We were blessed by hand me down boots in brown and hot pink but had to find the hat in our local general store. She may have started a trend as her older sisters are now on the hunt for cowgirl boots too!

Thursday, June 9, 2011

One Cute Cowgirl!








The boys!

Cameron....



Colby.....


Ty....




Progress has been made on the "hands are not for hitting" front. Cameron is very curious and is not easily deterred. If Ty is playing with a toy, Cameron has to see how that works and needs to take it away from him. Ty typically will smack me in frustration with the babies, which is still better than smacking one of the babies, but I of course correct that reaction and try to put his frustration into words while attempting to distract the determined Cameron. Yesterday, after moving three times to get away from him, Ty finally came to me and said, "Mommy. Baby. Night-night.". Cameron was placed in the bouncy seat for safe keeping and Ty was hugged.

Sunday, June 5, 2011

A busy week!

The tooth fairy came.

Erin said good bye to her favorite teachers....

and can't believe she won't see them in the building next year.
We celebrated a school year completed.

A firetruck visited our neighborhood to collect for charity. It was "loud".

And we played until our feet were too dirty to do anything but be bathed, where we now "cook" and "wash" toy dishes.

We relaxed

and played with friends

and started yoga? I have no idea what this really is but Colby does it all the time!